5 February 2012, 1:40 pm
Just yesterday, my two best guy friends had a fight over me. I'm still stressed out about it, too, and I need help. Guy 1- Has been my friend since second grade. I'm in tenth now and he's ninth, though he's only six months younger than me. He lives in Colorado, and I haven't seen him in a long time because I moved to Illinois in third grade. Then he found me on Facebook a couple months ago and we've been talking since then. He's impatient, but is very fun to talk to, we've texted, called and messaged each other. He's flirted with me many times, but I got used to it after a while. Guy 2- Met him one morning when I went to my African History class early, he has the same teacher, though in a different period. My teacher asked me to explain something to him. That's how we met. That afternoon, he found me on Facebook and I confirmed. We've been talking since then, and poking nonstop. We've made glances at each other during lunch at school, and he was the only one noticing that other people noticed us doing it. I brought the two together on Thursday and they became friends. Then we had group conversations that I thought were just awesome. That night, when Guy 1 left and it was just Guy 2 and me, our conversations weren't the same as they'd been for the past couple of months. I even said it to him, and asked why. He kept avoiding my question. I then decided to ask if it was Guy 1, though he said no and we just left the conversation there. Then yesterday is when everything went entirely downhill. We had a fine group conversation in the morning and then left to do our own things. Then I was texting Guy 2, our conversations were still just odd. He then said he was sorry that our conversations were going strangely and decided to say that it was because of Guy 2. Later I got texs from Guy 1 asking if I was dating Guy 2. I was actually shocked by this and said no, and he said he asked me because Guy 2 was pursuing him on whether he liked me. The two got into this whole fight, and Guy 1 didn't want to be friends with Guy 2 if he was interested in me. What I learned through Facebook later on is that all the times I talked to Guy 2, he thought that it was because I liked him. And that at lunchtime, I would look at him and blush, that was something I was surprised about as well. Then, he said that when I introduced Guy 1, we acted like we really cared for each other. That's when I realized that Guy 2 was jealous. I was able to get the two to be friends again, and tell them both that I was just friends with them. I thought everything would return to normal, but conversations with Guy 2 now are just sad. Guy 1 is sure I chose him over Guy 2 and is as happy as can be. What do I do about this? I know I have feelings for Guy 1, but I'm really sorry for what happened with Guy 2.... Read More »
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